To most of the exgay crowd, we’re just damaged heterosexuals. Then there is the other exgay crowd that acknowledges their sexuality but view it as a life test of sorts, god made them gay to challenge them, to see if they’d become straight like god wanted. Which isn’t unlike the original sin arguments that I hear sometimes. God (allegedly) makes a human flawed by design just to see if they can make the right design themselves.

Anyway, the insistence by some that homosexuals (or those with “homosexual delusions”) must necessarily lead a chaste life seems to me a rather dull, incomplete life. I view intimacy with my partner as natural and healthy, a gift to be enjoyed and not put up on a shelf or displayed in a sealed case like some museum curiosity.

How deranged a creator must be to intentionally create flawed sentients just to see how they turn out, like some mad scientist in a lab. Dr Frankenstein and his monster come eerily to mind. Or how sick to create sentients with gifts you never intend for them to use.

No, in my humble opinion I am free to enjoy what life has to offer me. If someone else chooses not to enjoy their life then that is up to them. I cannot interfere and more importantly I will not interfere.

I wish more people would choose non-interference.

Anyway, I think I strayed off the point… There were a few things on my mind that came up through my fingers

To insist that we’re damaged or that we don’t exist or that we’re somehow “against god’s plan” are some of the most arrogant, hurtful things I have ever heard.