Dec
14
2006
2

PFOX’s Thinly Veiled Threats

They’re at it again. I wrote earlier about PFOX’s attempt to take over our school district, because they object to a sex-ed curriculum that doesn’t include their propaganda about “reparative therapy” but does include a section on “Respecting Sexual Differences” which encourages students to put themselves in the place of LGBT students who face harassment, etc. According to the PFOX crowd, teaching kids that LGBT students shouldn’t be harassed, and maybe teaching them a little empathy, is “promoting” a “lifestyle.” (Whereas teaching LGBT students that they’re really heterosexual and just don’t know it yet, is fine and dandy. Because what the world really needs is more Ted Haggards and Paul Barnes.)

So, that’s cause to pull out the big guns. They’ve been to court once already (because they’re actually not averse to resorting to the courts if it helps them get their way) but didn’t get everything they wanted. So, now they’re threatening legal action again if the board approves the new non-homophobic curriculum. [Via Vigilance.]

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Written by terrance in: current events,gay rights,maryland,politics |
Dec
13
2006
2

Tofu Hot Dogs

Per my comment on the previous post — concerning claims of a connection between soy, homosexuality and penis size — it turns out that science bears out my personal experience.

The relation between sexual orientation and penile dimensions in a large sample of men was studied. Subjects were 5,122 men interviewed by the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction from 1938 to 1963. They were dichotomously classified as either homosexual (n = 935) or heterosexual (n = 4187). Penile dimensions were assessed using five measures of penile length and circumference from Kinsey’s original protocol. On all five measures, homosexual men reported larger penises than did heterosexual men. Explanations for these differences are discussed, including the possibility that these findings provide additional evidence that variations in prenatal hormonal levels (or other biological mechanisms affecting reproductive structures) affect sexual orientation development.

Proving once again that with guys it all comes down to “Who’s Got the Biggest.” Or at least thinks he does. Maybe that’s the root of the concern expressed by the WorldNetDaily columnist. In which case I suggest he try the tofu hot dog challenge.

It’s from Alfred Kinsey, though. So the nutters will disregard it anyway.

Via Andrew Sullivan.

Written by terrance in: current events,politics,science,vegetarian |
Dec
12
2006
4

Another One Bites The…

Well, you get the idea. I’m starting to think there’s something in the water in Colorado. First Haggard, now another evangelical minister has resigned over a gay-sex scandal. And this one’s got a twist or two on the Haggard scandal.

On Sunday, Paul Barnes, founding pastor of the 2,100-member Grace Chapel in this Denver suburb, told his evangelical congregation in a videotaped message he had had sexual relations with other men and was stepping down.

Dave Palmer, associate pastor of Grace Chapel, told The Denver Post that Barnes confessed to him after the church received a call last week.

The church board of elders accepted Barnes’ resignation on Thursday.

On the videotape, which The Post was allowed to view, Barnes told church members: “I have struggled with homosexuality since I was a 5-year-old boy. … I can’t tell you the number of nights I have cried myself to sleep, begging God to take this away.”

Barnes, 54, led Grace Chapel for 28 years. He and his wife have two adult children.

The parts in bold are the one’s that jumped out at me. More on those after the jump.

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Written by terrance in: current events,gay rights,politics,religion |
Dec
12
2006
1

God, Brought To You By Your Government

It’s gotten to the point where even attempting to blog on the weekends is an exercise in frustration, so I’ve pretty much stopped trying anymore. Had I been blogging, or even reading blogs this weekend, I would definitely have covered this New York Times article on tax-payer funding proselytizing by evangelical Christians; in this case, quite literally, to a captive audience.

Life was different in Unit E at the state prison outside Newton, Iowa.

The toilets and sinks — white porcelain ones, like at home — were in a separate bathroom with partitions for privacy. In many Iowa prisons, metal toilet-and-sink combinations squat beside the bunks, to be used without privacy, a few feet from cellmates.

The cells in Unit E had real wooden doors and doorknobs, with locks. More books and computers were available, and inmates were kept busy with classes, chores, music practice and discussions. There were occasional movies and events with live bands and real-world food, like pizza or sandwiches from Subway. Best of all, there were opportunities to see loved ones in an environment quieter and more intimate than the typical visiting rooms.

But the only way an inmate could qualify for this kinder mutation of prison life was to enter an intensely religious rehabilitation program and satisfy the evangelical Christians running it that he was making acceptable spiritual progress. The program — which grew from a project started in 1997 at a Texas prison with the support of George W. Bush, who was governor at the time — says on its Web site that it seeks “to ‘cure’ prisoners by identifying sin as the root of their problems” and showing inmates “how God can heal them permanently, if they turn from their sinful past.”

This is the same faith-based and tax-payer funded Prison Fellowship program that I blogged about earlier, which is supported by ex-Watergate felon Charles Colson (who is, by the way a hero of David Kuo’s, whose book, Tempting Faith, I reviewed earlier) and is one of many such programs proliferating across the country. The Times article is one of a series (also covered earlier) on what I think will be one of the enduring legacies of the Bush administration: undermining separation of church and state by weakening regulations designed to keep the government out of the business of endorsing or underwriting one particular faith. (Or a particular version of one faith, given that the IRS has taken notice of political activity in progressive churches after years of ignoring the same in conservative churches, and on a much larger scale.)

In this case, it’s the government handing out tax dollars to religious organizations who then use it to proselytize for their particular version of Christianity and/or to discriminate against those who don’t share their religious beliefs and practices, as the 95%-government-funded Salvation Army does. And while the government isn’t necessarily giving them funding specifically for those purposes, the combination of a lack of oversight in the administration’s faith-based initiatives program, and Congress actively weakening regulations intended to prohibit just such a use of government funding (and making it more difficult to fight for church/state separation in the courts) seem to have produced that result.

And given the political aims of the movement, explicitly stated by Colson, it’s not hard to believe that the outcome — if not intended — is at least welcomed by the White House and the Republican party. Because it represents, I think, a nearly permanent union between the American government and a specific branch of American Christianity that policy makers will find difficult to dismantle, if indeed they have the political will to do so at all.

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Written by terrance in: bush,current events,politics,religion |
Dec
08
2006
6

Hudson Speaks Up

I hadn’t seen Jennifer Hudson’s full statement, regarding her Dallas Voice interview, when I wrote the previous post. It’s worth noting here because I think Hudson more than rights herself and reveals a bit more about her feelings and the reasons for them, and because she makes some important points that I hope more people will hear and consider. So, here is it, via PlanetOut.

“In a recent interview, I was asked how I reconciled being a Christian with performing at events for my gay fans. I find it upsetting that some folks equate being a Christian with being intolerant of gay people. That may, unfortunately, be true for some, but it is not true for me. I have talked often of my love and support of the gay community. I have said again and again that it was the gay community that supported me long before and long after ‘American Idol,’ and kept me working and motivated.

“It is the gay community that celebrated my voice and my size and my personality long before Dreamgirls. Yes, I was raised Baptist. Yes, I was taught that the Bible has certain views on homosexuality. The Bible also teaches us not to judge. It teaches us to love one another as God loves us all. I love my sister, my two best friends and my director dearly. They happen to be gay. So what? While some search for controversy, I hope that my friends and fans who know me, know where I stand.”

If you missed the major point, here they are, pulled out from the rest of the statement

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Written by terrance in: celebrities,current events,gay rights,religion |
Dec
08
2006
4

Divas Sometimes Slip

I didn’t expect to be writing about Dreamgirls again so soon after my earlier post, despite the fact that I went out and got the deluxe edition of the soundtrack. And while the soundtrack is quite good (this isn’t a review, but I may write one later) it brought to mind something I surprised I didn’t think of when I posted earlier. Again, clearly the producers of this movie know they have at least one audience they can count onto see it even if no one else does: Gays. After all, it’s got Broadway cred, fabulous costumes, a flotilla of divas, a basis in the life story of a prototypical diva, and a show-stopping anthem that has kept drag queens in business for a quarter century. I mean, the deluxe soundtrack includes a dance mix of Jennifer Hudson’s “And I Am Telling You I’m Not Going.” Okay?

But as Keith points out, Dreamgirls isn’t only the biggest gay film event since Evita. It’s also an important black film event, perhaps the most important since The Color Purple. (When was the last time you saw so many black actors in a movie this big? And a dramatic film?) And listening to the soundtrack (as I have, at least half a dozen times since yesterday), particularly to Hudson’s and Knowles’ gospel-influenced vocals as well as the call and response employed in so many of the other songs, as it was in the Motown music on which the show and movie are based, makes it tricky to promote a movie like Dreamgirls.

Not just because it has two different, though overlapping audiences, but because there’s some members of one audience are likely to bear some antipathy towards members of the other audience. And in the course of promoting the movie to those audiences, some young singer/actresses who honed their vocal chops in black churches will find themselves walking a fine line and sometimes stumbling over it.

Case in point, two different interviews given by two of the principal actresses in the film; Jennifer Hudson and Beyonce Knowles.

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Dec
07
2006
3

Weblog Awards, Voting

Voting has begun on the Weblog Awards. You can vote on the Best LGBT Blog category here. I’ve voted. So that makes one vote for this blog. Any support is greatly appreciated!

Written by terrance in: blogs |
Dec
07
2006
4

How Liberal Am I?



Your Political Profile:

Overall: 5% Conservative, 95% Liberal
Social Issues: 0% Conservative, 100% Liberal
Personal Responsibility: 0% Conservative, 100% Liberal
Fiscal Issues: 0% Conservative, 100% Liberal
Ethics: 0% Conservative, 100% Liberal
Defense and Crime: 25% Conservative, 75% Liberal

No surprises there…

Via Retrospectacle.

Written by terrance in: memes |
Dec
07
2006
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Gay Rights & the Virtue of Low Expectations

In the previous post about Obama, I promised a post about what gays can reasonably expect from the incoming Democratic Congress. The subject has been in the back of my mind since an article entitled “What We Can Reasonably Expect” landed in my inbox just before Thanksgiving. The article does a pretty good job of spelling out the shift in Congress, and particularly what it means for gays & lesbians in terms of who’s leaving Congress, who’s entering Congress, and which Democrats will end up with leadership positions.

Then there’s the section that neatly reflects the results of the previously mentioned progressive penchant for supporting Democrats who’re not-so-progressive on gay issues, and almost draws a sliding scale from one of the more pro-equality Democrats (Sherrod Brown) to the not-so-pro-equality Democrats taking their places in the next Congress. And it’s that description that reminds me of something I said earlier, which I think bears repeating, since it seems to figure into the “gospel of low expectations” I’m hearing regarding gay issues in the next congress.

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Written by terrance in: current events,family,gay rights,politics |
Dec
06
2006
6

Weblog Awards

Holy shit. I didn’t even know about it until I saw the comment from Konagod (nominated for Best New Blog, by the way), but it looks like this blog is among the nominees for Best LGBT blog in the Weblog Awards. (As you might have noted from the newly placed badge on the sidebar.) I don’t think that’s ever happened before, as far as I can remember, at least not with the Weblog awards.

The only thing cooler than being nominated is being nominated in the company of some of my favorite bloggers, like: Keith, Pam, and Jim. At this point, I don’t care if I win anymore. It’s nice to get a nod every once in a while.

There are a ton of nominees in all kinds of categories. Interestingly enough, they have categories from the best of the top 250, 251-500, 501-1000, 1001-1750, 1751-2500, 2501-3500, 3501-5000, 5001-6750, 6751-8750, and 8751+ blogs. It’s good to see they’re looking beyond the top 100, since it means more exposure for blogs and bloggers that might not get much recognition otherwise. There aren’t any links to the nominated blogs yet, but they’re promised to be coming soon. Still, go check out the nominees. You might find some great new blog you’ve missed reading until now.

Voting starts on Thursday.

Written by terrance in: blogs |
Dec
06
2006
3

“And I Am Telling You….”

Whenever we can, the hubby and I go on a date together. Usually it’s a day that both of us have off from work, or take off from work, but when daycare is open. We head into the District, window shop, have lunch, see a movie, and maybe have an early supper before going to pick up Parker and head home. Last night we were talking about having just such a date over the holiday, when the hubby mentioned the possibility of seeing a movie.

Now, since becoming parents we don’t see nearly as many movies as we used to. At least I know I don’t see as many movies as I used to. There was a time when I’d see one ever other weekend. And when the Oscars rolled around, I’d have seen most if not all of the nominated performances and films. (Even won a few Oscar pools, because there’s some truth in the joke that the Oscars is essentially the gay equivalent of the Super Bowl.) Now, the movies we see have to be carefully chosen, lest we pour the energy and time required to organize a date into seeing a dud. And usually we discuss which movie to see.

Not this time. I told him that if I see any movie over the holidays, it’s going to be Dreamgirls.

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Written by terrance in: gay rights,movies |
Dec
04
2006
2

WIll Marriage Come to Maryland?

Well, maybe. With the New Jersey Supreme Court decision still fresh in the public mind, the Maryland Court of Appeals (our highest court) heard opening arguments today (you can hear them via webcast) in a case that could make Maryland the next state to afford legal recognition and benefits to same-sex couples. In other words, the next battle front on same-sex marriage is my back yard.

More than two years after nine gay and lesbian couples challenged local clerks of courts to issue them marriage licenses, Maryland's battle over same-sex marriages moves to the state's highest court tomorrow — an emotion-charged case whose consequences seem sure to reverberate across the legislature and the electoral landscape.

The arguments before the Maryland Court of Appeals will propel the state toward what legal experts predict will be a long, bitterly fought struggle over who is entitled to the rights and benefits of marriage.

… In arguments before the Court of Appeals, attorneys representing the plaintiffs, who filed the lawsuit in July 2004, will contend that Maryland's 1973 law defining marriage as a union between one man and one woman violates their constitutional rights.

The primary argument of the state attorney general's office will be that the matter should be decided by the legislature.

It will probably be a long, bitter fight, but I think there's a good shot that we'll end up with civil unions, if not full marriage equality. Either way, I intend to be a part of helping make it happen in whatever way I can. (To that end, I've already joined Equality Maryland, and will take part in whatever actions or activities they're engaged in.)

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Dec
03
2006
7

The Obama Bandwagon

This train is bound for glory, this train. And in 2008 it may just be a question of whether you’re on it, under it, or — as I think I will be — standing by the track, watching it go by. As the 2008 presidential field shapes up, I’m remembering a little advice my dad once gave me about voting: “If you can’t find somebody to vote for, find somebody to vote against. But vote.”

While my dad’s intention was probably just to encourage me to take part in the political process, I think 2008 is going to be one of those years when I can’t find anybody to vote for, with any sense of enthusiasm anyway, and will have to settle for finding somebody to vote against. It will come down to the difference between thinking “I want him/her in office” or simply deciding “S/he’ll do.”

And as it looks like Barrack Obama is morphing into the Democrats Great Black Holy Hope for 2008, I guess I should start now working my way up to a rousing, enthusiastic, heartfelt, “He’ll do” Maybe.”

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Dec
03
2006
1

Sweet

Sweet Potato Souffle'

This sweet potato soufflé is something I whipped up to take to a holiday party yesterday evening. (For the uninitiated, those are marshmallows on top. Think of them as a meringue.) For some reason it occurred to me to take a picture of it, and then to post about it. Why? Because lately I’ve been revisiting old dreams and passions of mine (another story), and cooking is one that I’d forgotten about for the past year or so, while we were living out of boxes and waiting for the house to be completed. Now that we’re in it, and we have a functioning kitchen again, I’ve been pulling out some old recipes.

Besides, the kind of political blogging I’ve been doing takes time — time to read, time to think, and time to write. Lately that’s more time than I have. I’m not sure that food blogging takes any less time (time to cook, time to think, and time to write?), but until I finish thinking through a couple more politically-oriented posts, it’s worth a shot.

So, why sweet potato soufflé?

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Written by terrance in: add/adhd,food & drink,life |
Dec
01
2006
5

Mama Mia!

So, we had a kind of queer family “Hallmark moment” last night, that I thought I’d share. The hubby was sitting on the floor playing with Parker, when Parker suddenly exclaimed “Mama mia!” (Given that he has two gay dads, you might be able to guess where this is going. If not, read on.)

I’m not sure where Parker picked that up, but think there’s a character in one of his favorite shows (my guess is Mr. Sabatini, from Bob the Builder), but the next thing I know, the hubby exclaims “Hey Parker, did you know there’s a “Mama Mia” song? Maybe Daddy can play it!”

What more needed to be said? Can you guess what happened next?

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Written by terrance in: family,humor,parenting,video |
Dec
01
2006
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Conservatives, AIDS & the “Compassion Gap”

This is probably one of those things we’re not supposed to talk about, particularly on World AIDS Day. But it’s been sitting in my inbox for a couple of days, and today seems like as good a day as any to address something that’s been an undercurrent in previous posts. So, there’s this new study from a Christian organization — Compassion International — which suggests that conservatives are somewhat less compassionate to people living with HIV/AIDS.

In the study commissioned by Compassion International, a ministry to poor children in developing countries, 1,004 telephone interviews with adults 18 and older were conducted by a Christian polling organization.

When asked if they “have more sympathy for people who have cancer than you do for people who have HIV or AIDS because you feel most of those with HIV/AIDS got the disease as a result of their decisions or lifestyles,” thirty-nine percent of the people polled agreed strongly or somewhat.

The study shows that political ideology plays a large role in the degree of sympathy Americans hold for victims.

“Demonstrating that these issues have been co-opted by political considerations, easily the most significant gap related to sociopolitical ideology,” the study says. “Political conservatives (50%) were twice as likely as liberals (23%) to say that they have less compassion for those with the ‘lifestyle’ disease.”

“Also, Republicans’ lack of sympathy outpaces that of Democrats (45% versus 34%, respectively),” the study adds.

Hey, I didn’t say it. I just quoted the study. Question is: Why the “compassion gap”?

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Written by terrance in: current events,gay rights,health,politics |
Dec
01
2006
1

World AID Day Re-Post: All I Want is a Cure and My Friends Back

(Ed. Note: Today is world AIDS day, and while I’d like to write something about it, I can’t come up with anything better than what I wrote last year. So, if may be the epitome of lazy blogging, but maybe there are some people who didn’t read it last year. So I’m re-posting it today. More news posts to follow…)

Support World AIDS DayThere’s a t-shirt in my closet at home, black with white lettering, that bears the words above. It expresses the sentiment that’s in my heart today. It’s World AIDS Day, and a day on which I can’t help thinking about all the people who have been lost; the ones close to me and the people never knew but who meant something to someone.

It was on my mind this morning when I picked my son up and carried him downstairs, and it was on my mind when I kissed him and my husband goodbye and made my way out the door. It wasn’t until I was on the train that it truly hit me. I was sitting, reading and listening to music, and the next song that played was Warren Zevon’s “Keep Me In Your Heart for a While,” written before his own death from lung cancer.

Shadows are falling and I’m running out of breath

Keep me in your heart for a while

If I leave you it doesn’t mean I love you any less

Keep me in your heart for a while

When you get up in the morning and you see that crazy sun

Keep me in your heart for a while

There’s a train leaving nightly called when all is said and done

Keep me in your heart for a while

Sitting there on the train I did something I almost never do. I wept. I closed my book, bowed my head, covered my face so that no one would see, and quietly wept. Sentimental, I know. But I couldn’t help it.

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Written by terrance in: current events,health,life |

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