A man who drowned trying to save his two sons trapped in a rip current could have been helped by tourists passing by from a parasailing trip, according to a captain who jumped in to save the boys.
Police say 38-year-old Renald Charles of Fruitland died Sunday while attempting to rescue his sons, 10 and 13. The boys and their father were spotted by Michael Andrew, owner of a 31-foot boat that was taking tourists to shore from a parasailing trip.
Andrew and one of his crew members jumped in, but the tourists videotaped the drowning instead of helping Charles, Andrew told The (Salisbury) Daily Times.
“I mean, c’mon, who are these people?” Andrew said
The boys survived. And maybe, if they’re lucky, those tourists will be nice enough to give them video that contains the last glimpse of their father. That is, of course, after they’ve copied and uploaded them to the web.
But I’m reaching a point at which I’m inclined to not to be too hard on the tourists, and the people in the stories above. They are, after all, just swimming with the cultural current.
We learned from George Will and Bill O’Reilly during Katrina that some people deserve to drown. If they were good people and had done the right things, they’d have had SUVs and they could’ve piled their families, filled up the tank on the credit card, and make for higher ground. So, they probably deserved to be right where they were.
After all, we live in a world of drowning people; people who are drowning in economic crises, who’ve had even the leaky lifejacket of bankruptcy snatched away from them. And we’re content to let them drown, because we believe on some level that God is on the side of the strong, that wealth and well being are evidence of virtue because God rewards faith with wealth and well-being. If we’re fortunate enough to have a decent share of both, it allows us to feel good about ourselves and believe that we are where we are because of our own virtue, our own goodness. We deserve to be where we are, and they deserve to be where they are.
We live in a country where the rich are getting richer, and the gulf between us and them only seems to grow wider; even as we subsidize the lifestyles of the rich and famous, even as the programs that would help a great many of us are cut, and even as their taxes are cut — cuts that, we were promised, would create jobs but didn’t. We may soon become a nation of drowning people, watched by the people on the boat, even as some of us go under.
I know I’ve probably worn out this analogy, but I think that same thing that makes the stories above possible is what makes the policies above — and their consequences — possible.
In more ways than one, we’ve become accustomed to watching each other drown. Just watching.