Once again, the theme seems to be uncontrollable rage. In the cases of Richie Phillips, Jason Gage, and Glenn Kopitske it was triggered by alleged sexual advances or sexual activity. In many of the cases I’m researching now, uncontrollable rage was triggered when men discovered that the women with whom they’d been intimate consensually were transgendered. Just as murder seems a rather extreme alternative to simply saying “No, thank you,” to allegedly unwanted, alleged advances, so it stands that no one deserves to be murdered if their partner does not know — or they do not disclose — their biological gender.
I don’t pretend to know what it’s like to have to decide, if, how, or when to disclose your gender identity to someone else, just like I don’t know what it’s like to have to struggle with gender identity and finally make the decision to start living on the outside the gender you’ve always felt on the inside. I can only listen to and acknowledge the experience of those who have lived with the reality of being transgender. I do know that no one deserves to die for being transgender, whether their sexual partner knows their biological gender or not. In some cases, I’m as skeptical about what the killers knew and when they knew it, as I am that any sexual advances or encounters in the previous cases involving gay men were unwanted or less than consensual.
In the murders of Jason Gage and Glenn Kopitske, the facts strongly suggest that whatever happened behind closed doors — where only the killer and the victim know what happened—was consensual. The uncontrollable rage that resulted in their murders was triggered by shame and anger on the part of their killers, over their own desires, or that others might find out, and their manhood would be threatened as a result. In some of the cases involving transgender victims, I find myself wondering how much the killers knew and to what degree the murders were driven by shame, guilt, anger, and the threatened manhood of the killers.
I found myself wondering about that as I researched the murder of Nireah Johnson. (BTW, if you’d like to help support the research for this project, you can do so via the PayPal button on the sidebar. All contributions will go to accessing news archives for research purposes.)
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