Archive for May, 2008Sometimes you look up and the whole day is gone. You’ve been “doing” all day, but not what you want to do. When you look at the days ahead, you’ve got lots more to be “doing,” but what you want to do isn’t on the list. If it’s on the list at all, it comes after the things you must do, have to do, should do, need to do, are needed to do, and are expected to. It comes dead last. You can think about it while you’re in the midst of all that “doing,” while you’re in the middle of being a “human doing” rather than a “human being.” You may wonder what you are “being” if what you’re “doing” isn’t what you want to do. Maybe you’re being what you must be, have to be, should be, need to be, are needed to be, and are expected to be. But what you want to be? It comes dead last. Too. So it is with anything I hoped to write today, or for the next several days. I want to write. I want to be a writer. But have other things to do and be. So, I am not. Today. It’s official. Just when I think American idiocy had finally peaked, it reaches new heights. We have officially become the most ignorant mo fos on the planet. I haven’t been to Dunkin’ Donuts in a while, but now I know I shan’t darken their door again. Any company that bows to ignorance doesn’t need my business. And by “US” I mean the United States. Why can’t we get behind this?
Before you answer, take a look at this. This got a laugh out of me when I spotted the title, and then a nod of recognition once I started reading the article. Apparently, ADHD can make you miss 20 days of work per year. Well, kinda.
It’s almost funny that, for folks with ADHD, those “missed days” occurred when they were actually at work. Almost. Not sure what to make of this. For the record, I grew up in the 80s, but I didn’t have any of these toys. I had a Ken doll, and G.I. Joe, which I think my parents got for me because of the amount of time I spent playing with my sister’s Barbie dolls. Once I got Ken and Joe back to my room… Well, let’s just say I didn’t have much time for Barbie anymore… Well, it looks that way. Remember that survey that came out right after the California marriage ruling, which said a majority of Californians narrowly opposed marriage equality? Well, yet another poll now says a majority supports marriage equality.
In some ways that’s not surprising, since the legislature sent marriage equality legislation to the governor not once but twice. Sure, he vetoed the legislation not each time. But the legislature that sent him those bills was elected by the people of California. So, maybe that reflects a change in public opinion. After all, even Arnold has changed his mind since then. In fact, he says it might even be good for the economy.
May
28
2008
The Color of AdoptionPosted by: terrance in adoption, current events, family, life, raceEver since I wrote a post about adoption and African American children back in 2004, I get occasional emails from people considering adoption — considering cross-racial adoption, especially — asking for information and advice. I’m not an expert, by any stretch of the imagination, but I try to answer them. The interesting thing is that I still get those emails even though I haven’t posted much on the subject since then. But that post came to mind recently, when I read a New York Times article about race and adoption.
May
27
2008
Barr Denounces DOMA?Posted by: terrance in courts, current events, elections, gay rights, politicsWoah. I may have to rethink my previous post about Bob Barr. According to Queerty, now Bob Barr says he’ll work to repeal DOMA. I’m thoroughly perplexed about what to make of this. Kip’s comment on the post above does give me pause tho’. Maryland has taken two baby-steps towards equality.
California gets marriage, and we get … well, … slightly more than we had before.
May
27
2008
The End of the World As They Know ItPosted by: terrance in courts, current events, gay rights, politicsI thought the columnist I mentioned earlier took the cake in terms of the religious right’s hysterical response to the California marriage ruling. Boy was I wrong. Ed has posted two World Nut Daily columns that leave me pretty much staring in open-mouthed wonder. It’s the kind of thing you have to read to believe, but once I did I was left with a question or two which I’ll pose at the end of this post. I don’t know what’s scarier. This:
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